Normal People

Normal People by Sally Rooney is unfortunately relatable and heartbreaking but also so well written that I couldn’t help but love it. For years I have heard people raving about Rooney and the complex strories she tells but I had been too scared to read one of her books. I knew that the emotions that Rooney stirred in her readers would crush me and I was correct. 

Reading the thought processes of both Marianne and Connell reminded me of my own before I got on anxiety medication. The self doubt, hyper-social awareness, overthinking, and shutting down reminded me so much of myself in highschool, especially during my first real relationship. Marianne and Connell would often ask themselves if they were normal and would watch others' reactions to see how they should react. Comparrison is a thief of joy and these characters have plenty of experience of that. 

Throughout the book I was so mad at the lack of communication between Marianne and Connell but I also understood the fear of rejection behind their silences. If they had been open and honest with each other though, a lot of the issues that arose throughout the book would have been non-existent and no one wants to read a book about two people simply in love.

The ending of the book is very unsatisfying and leaves the reader with a lot of questions but I can understand why Rooney did this. Marianne and Connell have been trapped in this vicious cycle of togetherness and separation for years and until they properly communicate with each other it will never end. The love and happiness that they bring to the table is conditional to their words and actions since they both silence their feelings. 

I do not recommend this book to the faint of heart, it is so compelling and heartbreaking. I read it in two days because I saw myself in Connell. If you are looking for a casual read or you’re wanting something fun, do not pick up this book.